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/r/DeadBedrooms - There's only one Love Language, those other four things are *Like* Languages

2011.11.03 19:09 /r/DeadBedrooms - There's only one Love Language, those other four things are *Like* Languages

A support group for Redditors who are coping with a relationship that is seriously lacking in sexual intimacy. Advice is always appreciated, just don't be surprised if we've heard it all. This subreddit is intended for all genders and sexual orientations, and supports all approaches. You will find frank discussion of supportive needs-driven methods, assertive seduction-based methods, and infidelity. Whatever gets you through.
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2019.03.23 17:15 M9ter dickproblems

Just about every guy at one point in their lives has a dick problem. This is a forum for male sexual discussions, both dick and non-dick related, relationships, self improvement, and especially how to use your dick. Topics include size, health, sexual wellness, among many others. Unlike other size related forums, we don't discriminate.! All sizes are welcome to join in the discussions and celebrate your manhood..!
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2013.09.08 19:35 ihateirony A Place for Sex-Positive Discussion

/sexposivity is a place for the discussion of sex and everything related to it from a sex positive perspective.
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2020.09.23 16:46 Froztynuts123 Can Coconut oil cause acne?

Title basically says it all. Specifically on the penis? I have 4 small pimples on my penis all spread apart after using coconut oil for the first time with my new partner. The pimples are small and white (not clear at all). They are all located on the hairier part of the shaft towards the bottom. I was worried at first that it could be herpes, but there is no pain and it looks nothing like herpes. Literally looks like a dry pimple with no redness, soreness, or open sores. She said she was tested recently, but I guess you can never really know with herps. Also of note is that the sex was really rough and penetration lasted for like 30-40 minutes.
Any thoughts? Going to go the docs ofc to get it checked out, but thought I'd post here for peace of mind as well. Or to give me more anxiety idk which.
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2020.09.23 16:07 HesChocolateThunder Boyfriend wants surgical enhancement on his penis.

My boyfriend (35m) and I have been together for over two years. He wants to get surgically enhanced. I am very against this for multiple reasons:
  1. He is already huge
  2. Multiple positions hurt now because of his size
  3. I try to go deep during oral and barely get half way down. I mean choking on that thing.
  4. He LOVES anal. I dislike it with a passion. It hurts and tears pour down my face because he is so big. If he thinks he's ever going near my booty hole again after this surgery he is very wrong
  5. We have a very active sex like. Very often we have quickies due to spontaneity. Walking down the street? Let's go behind this fence real quick. In a public place? I'll meet you in the bathroom. Driving down the road? Let's pull over. If he gets bigger and we need lube and/or have to take it slow to ease it in its going to significantly impact our sex life.
  6. He is already huge!!!!! This needs to be mentioned a few times. I love to point out to him in public that he has a dick print in his pants. Soft, hard, doesn't matter. It shows.
  7. I constantly remind him how big he is.
Am I being selfish for being so against this? I have breast implants so I have had body modification myself. I think a significant difference is that my boobs won't cause anyone physical pain.
My issue has nothing to do with the cost. Our finances are separate and he is very financially responsible. He wouldn't buy anything he couldn't afford.
He has only had three partners in his life. I know for a fact no one has called him small. He watches a lot of porn and bases what he thinks is "normal" on what he sees in the videos.
I have explained all of this above to him. Even his unreasonable expectations from porn. He still scheduled a consultation next month.
Edit: Showed him this post with comments and he wanted to add his point of view:
"I don't have a big penis, I feel like my girlfriends vagina is just smaller than the average women, having the surgery will get me to average size. It will help me with my self esteem and make me feel better about myself. Having become a widower has changed my mindset it ways most people do not understand."
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2020.09.23 13:15 kungfukenny69 Lost Virginity through Unprotected Sex, Urgent Guidance Needed concerning Plan B Pills

Hey everyone,
Me [M21] and my partner [F20] had proper, penetrative sex for the first time a day ago. It was unprotected because it happened in the heat of the moment and we did not have condoms. The penetration itself lasted not very long, since we got paranoid about the possibilities of this going very wrong and we stopped.
\Disclaimer: Also I think I need to mention here that 2 days before the aforementioned incident, we were grinding on each other without any protection and she thinks my penis might have accidentally went inside (very little) for a few seconds (10-15s) but she is unsure as she thinks there might not have been any penetration at that point.*
The actual sex happened right a day or two before her periods were supposed to start (so there was some spotting already according to her). Regardless, due to a lack of proper knowledge of how pregnancies and fertilization work, we had to think quick and decided on getting a Plan B pill just to be on the safe side.
This pill isn't called Plan B in the country I reside, but is an emergency contraception pill (ECP) containing levonorgestrel 0.75mg. She consumed this pill after around 8-9 hours after we had sex. The next day, her periods started and she has not suffered any side effects from the pill (any noticeable ones, at least).
While the periods were a relief, we still wanted to confirm and learn more about the process itself, so we had a few questions from you guys for guidance.
Q1. Is this onset of periods normal, or caused by the Plan B pill? Do we have anything to worry about (in relation to unwanted pregnancy) now that she has started bleeding? Q2. Generally speaking, what would be the chances of my partner getting pregnant considering we had sex right before / at the start of her periods, had we not taken any pill? Q3. How effective are ECPs in situations like these? The thought of unwanted pregnancy is extremely stressful since we are both young and live in a country where we can't socially and financially afford to have one.
Q4. Since I didn't cum, is pre-cum enough to get pregnant considering that the presence of sperm is low (because I have peed several times before the last time I ejaculated)?
Q5. Is a pregnancy test still needed to be on the safe side if her periods have arrived?
Q6. What other step would you guys recommend we take?
Also for my own knowledge, had a few questions about her periods.
Q5. She usually has very painful cramps, and also suffers through mood swings which ruin her days. Is there any medication she can take that would help with the pain and ease her symptoms, without any notable side effects?
Thanks everyone! It's been an anxious day or two for both of us and I find it very unfair for women who have to go through these anxieties much more than men. Looking forward to your responses.
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2020.09.23 12:29 ThrowDaddyAway84 My partner never shuts up and it's ruining everything.

I'm 35(m) and my partner is 39(f).
I'm quite an introvert so when we first got together a few years ago, I thought she was quite good for me - it brought me out of my shell a little bit and I was willing to embrace a new talkative lifestyle.
However, over the past 18 months she's got a lot worse and I've realised that we're not really having conversations anymore, she's just talking at me about ANYTHING that pops into her head.
This can range from anything to 'its raining outside' or 'Its Saturday tomorrow' to really detailed accounts of entire conversations she's had with family, or co-workers including 'So then I said... And she was like, and I'm like ...' pulling exasperated facial expressions the whole way through, as if it's a really interesting story.
What about if I'm reading, listening to a podcast, playing a game, working at home? Not a problem, no need to check if I'm busy, just walk into the room and launch straight into your story about something that has absolutely nothing to do with me. I'll stop what I'm doing just so you can talk at me.
We haven't had sex in months. It's just too much hassle now - usually I'd have to make the first move and because she has no filter she would start moaning about her insecurities 'God I feel so fat!' I used to reassure her, but it's every time and it kills the mood.
I invited her upstairs this morning, in a nudge nudge sex sex kind of way, and upon entering the room she flopped down on the bed and started talking about some training for work that she's just booked in and then recited the entire conversation she had with her manager about it. Within about 10 seconds my erection noped itself away and it was just me and my flaccid penis sat there listening to her shit story. I actually wanted to cry a bit, but I just told her talking about work doesn't really do it for me, but since that's what we're talking about I may as well get back to work. She look annoyed and left after a bit.
I don't quite know how to describe my feelings, but I've previously compared it to PTSD/extreme anxiety. I long for quiet alone time, but I always feel on edge when she's in the house now - I know I'm never more than 10 minutes away from her barging into any room and announcing whatever had popped into her head and I constantly feel irritable and anxious knowing it's going to happen soon.
The worst part is, I've explained all this to her. I started gently, with things like 'I just benefit from some quiet time from time to time' or 'I don't need the entire conversation, just give me the summary', but to no avail. Running out of ideas I tried being blunter 'You talk too much and it's driving me insane.' slight improvement for a couple of days, but then back to normal.
I'm starting to think she might just be quite stupid in a way that I didn't realise before. Why would she carry on if I've bluntly told her how much it bothers me? Last week she asked me why I don't make eye contact with her around the house anymore. 'To be honest, you always seem to take that as a cue to talk. And sometimes I'm trying to get stuff done and I don't want you to start talking.' I actually felt bad as I was saying it as it's so blunt, but again it was like water off a ducks back. Is there anything left to try?
Edit: Oh and we have a 5 year old son, hence me trying to make it work rather than taking inspiration from my erection and instantly leaving.
TL:DR: my girlfriend never shuts up and not only does it ruin sex, it's harming my mental health and our relationship.
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2020.09.23 09:41 KombatWombat897 Strange shaped penis effecting how condoms fit

Hey, there. So I would say I'm about average. I'm 6.3BPL and 4.6 girth. My penis curves upwards and to the left. My issue is that my head is probably where things are the thinnest so wearing a regular condom looks a bit baggy and weird there, but the actual condom does hold onto my penis well and feels good around my shaft to the mid penis. My problem is that I've also been circumcised, and the procedure make my scrotum connect to my shaft quite high up giving me a webbed penis. My problem is because of this I can't pull a condom down far enough because of this skin. Also, my partner isn't on birth control or anything like that and I wouldn't ask her to do that to eliminate condom use because we're both in university still and I'd rather be extra safe and still wear it. Should I be wearing slim fit condoms? Where do I even get them? I stay in a country that doesn't have any slim fit condoms. I've used Skyn original and I've found them to be the best in terms of fit.
Anyone have any advice?
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2020.09.23 09:09 rightwingnews /u/SadKangaroo91 on Why isn’t the rise of promiscuity and abandonment of premarital chastity a bigger issue?

Premarital chastity is a dumb idea in any society. Just because some sexually frustrated priests made a rule thousands of years ago doesn’t mean you have to hide your penis/vagina from everybody until you have a loop on your finger.
As for promiscuity, yeah you probably shouldn’t be sleeping around until you are old enough to understand the repercussions. So I’m all for putting a damper on relatively young people who are sexually active with a large amount of partners.
Abandoning your child is never okay. If you get somebody pregnant, you owe it to the child to be their father. But contraceptives exists for a reason. If used effectively, men shouldn’t become fathers unless they want to. So abandonment shouldn’t be an issue for most sexually active men.
from SadKangaroo91 on Why isn’t the rise of promiscuity and abandonment of premarital chastity a bigger issue?
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2020.09.23 07:37 Calvin_Fine Follow The Lust - An uncanny link between racial preferences of women in a group and prejudice.

When it comes to politics, there is often a saying that goes "Follow The Money". Now that saying can mean a lot of things but I always took it to mean that while politicians will put on all sorts of facade and say all sorts of things, it is ultimately what funds them that determines how they act. In game and sex though, I have found over the years another saying that needs to be said more. Now this is the best sub to discuss it on because in most other places, it would sound very odd and out there as a theory but bare with me.
"Follow The Lust" or in other words, "Follow The Pussy". Sounds weird as a phrase on its own but when I explain more, you'll see it.
Slight misconception: Women tend to choose the objectively best men who are the most handsome, cool, and accomplished.
Now this is not exactly wrong, it is just very subjective. "Best" can vary by a lot and it can mean a different thing from group to group. What is attractive to a sorority girl in college is different from what is attractive to a woman nearing 30 who wants to settle down. Now some things are commonly attractive such as be in good shape, don't be entirely broke and living with your parents, and don't be socially dumb to where you cannot hold a conversation but it goes deeper than that. Unfortunately, a part of that deeper might be something you cannot change but knowledge is power nonetheless.
Reality - The social environment she grows up in as well as her group and culture has a lot of say in what kinds of men a woman finds attractive.
In some cultures, you may as well be viewed as a great catch because you are a cool Asian guy who looks good and has a job. In other cultures, you being Asian alone is a huge setback. Ever wonder why you see total loser type of white guys without their lives together with certain girls that are hot? Well, it just so happens that their friends seemed to find those guys hot and then their social environment put a hot label on that guy. He was no longer a loser, he was an "aspiring artist". The culture and environment a woman grows up in frames certain guys a certain way. In Texas, a cool hot Indian guy is "exotic" but in the Bay Area, he is still "Indian" and has a lesser value.
It goes deeper, and this is the reason for my post, as Oscar Wilde said, everything in the world is about sex except for sex, that is about power. When women of a given culture or subgroup avoid men of certain races, it also talks about the underlying prejudice in that subgroup that impacts you potentially on other levels.
Women of a given culture not wanting to put out for you because you are Asian, well, that is inconvenient if that is your thing. I wouldn't make this post if it stopped on that. You see, when women of a given culture disqualify you hard for your race, it means there are certain underlying things in that culture that make that culture see you in an inferior light. Men of that culture likely see you as lesser than them and they probably consider you an inferior not worthy of respect. You are probably portrayed in a bad light and seen as a joke by them in most cases.
Even if you were to partner with men from such a subgroup or culture, they will throw you under the bus and take what you worked for because they feel they are more deserving than your kind. Now this is not absolutes but it is damn sure right in a lot of cases. You do not have the respect of men from the subgroup of that women which coincidentally leads to these women passing you up more than other kinds of women might.
A personal experience with this.
When I lived in LA a few years ago, I noticed that the party scene had its fair share of Persians compared to the party and nightlife scene in other cities. I did notice something, while Asian men men who were cool dated and fucked women of various cultures such as white, black, mixed, and Latina; it was unheard of to see one with a Persian chick that was hot. Now some can say it is because Persian women do not date and hook up interracially, actually, they do quite a lot with white guys in LA and prefer them even over Persian men for short-term flings.
I thought nothing of it until one night it hit me. An old classmate of mines from college who I mainly knew through mutual friends was a Persian kid. When he moved to the city, I showed him around and one night we go out. I pull this redhead and he goes home empty, said the girls at the club were stuckup. We go out a few more times and I do better than him, largely due to his toxic views of women and how angry he is.
Then one night, he comments saying how "it is rare to see an Asian guy pull" and "don't women always make dick jokes about you all?". I was thrown off but I let him know his comment is weird. Then he starts to say how his sisters and cousins would never fuck Asian or anything other than a white guy.
I ignore it and cut ties with him but over the next year or so, I notice that Persian guys try to test me more, especially when I am with a white girl. Even more so than white and black guys, I get racist comments in nightlife and the usual small penis jokes.
Even when I met them on a social level, I noticed they lacked respect towards Asian men or seeing them as equals as they would a white guy. Then a year later, I find that a coworker of mines who is a Persian guy was gossiping about me and making race jokes behind my back through a couple coworkers (one black and one Indian).
Now it started to make sense to me. As much as I'd like to screw a hot Persian chick, it doesn't annoy me as much. What did annoy me was how a lot of Asian, Indian, and Pakistani guys I know dealt with the hate and were targeted in social situations by a Persian guy. If any of us were successful with a white girl or about to pull one? A Persian guy almost seemed to want to crash the show. The idea being, how can these men pull the kinds of women I want? They are below me.
Once I experienced that, it was no mystery to me why I saw the interracial dating trends I saw with Persian women. They grew up with their brothers and family being racist and looking down on us, not in a taboo way but in a more asexual boring beta male way, so it is no mystery at all that these women would autoreject certain races.
This was an example, it can apply to other examples.
People from certain cities where Asian men do poorly? Well, underlying social trends to keep in mind.
It is never the women themselves, their hookup habits are telling of way more than just sex. The reason they picked the men they did was due to how they were taught and the noise. Your takeaway should not be who to fuck and who not to, it should be to be more aware of this sort of thing.
If a guy of a certain culture is trying to be all buddy buddy with you but you find that his sisters and women of his culture are rude to you compared to a white guy? He has an angle, he is trying to likely use you. Be on guard.
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2020.09.23 00:10 brownwonderbread Partner said she had hsv 2 got tested it came back hpv

My partner said she had genital herpes and that I should get tested. She got tested and it came back positive. I got tested and it came back negative. I found a few warts on my penis a few months ago and went to a dermatologist. They said the warts were benign and dont know the reason for them. I got one again and was given immoquid cream for it. The cream hasn't done anything to the warts so far. They do itch but don't bleed or shed. Is this a misdiagnosis?
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2020.09.22 22:23 IdgafAboutUrFeelings Pretty upset and confused. How can this be possible?

About a few months ago I noticed I had some little bumps on the shaft of my penis. I went to a dermatologist yesterday because I thought they were just skin tags, however the doctor said it was genital warts/HPV.
What I don't understand is that my SO and I have been together for close to 10 years, we're our only sexual partners (and I'm not really concerned about faithfulness), and yet I've got genital warts? I'm really confused and I can't seem to find an answer on this online. How can this be possible? My GF hasn't been tested yet, and she has no symptoms as far as I can tell, but I don't know for sure.
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2020.09.22 21:44 FickleFeature Fart powered $RKT could be back on the launchpad sooner than everyone thought

Great solid company, great revenue, great management team blah blah blah...
The truth is that $RKT after earnings (great btw) has been more flaccid than my penis when I look at its chart. Ok that the whole market is down and it was a fresh IPO, but the future is prosperous: low interest rates till 2023, house sales are record high (6M in August, 2.4% MoM) and still projected to grow and they're smart, they don't hold the bag! they sell the mortgages right away.
Enough with things that everyone know. Today at 1pm they announced that,among other things, they're partnering with google here on quicken loans website
This is great news especially because can help them being recognized as a fintech company.
At the moment we have a resistence at 22 that needs more volume than the current 5M to be broken, and once that happens, meaning as soon as the big news outlets pick up the news, we could be set for an initial take off.
Do your own research. Godspeed fellow retards
Position: shares and a bunch of 9/18 calls expired worthless. Waiting to break 22 to buy 10/16 25c
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2020.09.22 18:33 throwRA421421 AITA for naming my son after my dead brother?

Tldr: I’m having a baby soon and I want to name him after my twin brother who died 21 years ago. My parents, who struggled for a long time after he died, think it is selfish of me.
I’m 29F and about to have my first baby with my partner. We found out it’s a boy (well it has a penis and probably is a boy) about a month ago.
I am a twin, but my twin brother passed away when we were 8. He was hit by a car and died from his injuries when we were playing outside together. It was really awful and my parents were obviously devastated. Their marriage didn’t survive the grief and they divorced a few years later. My dad became an alcoholic and things were bad for many years, but he’s in recovery now. My mom remarried a couple years ago and is now happy but my only memories of her for the year or two after my brother died are of her crying on the couch or in bed. It’s safe to say that my brother’s death just about destroyed them both. They never had any other kids so I’m their only living child.
As for me I started therapy as soon as I left for college (they never put me in therapy) and I have come a long way. Nowadays I’m happy, I have a great job that I love, my partner and I have been together for 5 years. I still think about my brother every day but I understand his death was in no way my fault and it was just a horrible accident.
I don’t have a fantastic relationship with my parents for obvious reasons but I do still visit them both and talk to them on the phone every other week or so. They still talk to each other. They are so happy I’m having a baby as it will be their first grandchild and our immediate family is pretty small. They are excited and have bought us lots of baby stuff.
Last week I asked my mom, step dad, and dad all to dinner at our house. My partner and I announced that we’re having a boy and that we’re naming him after my brother. I thought my parents would be thrilled and fully expected to be celebrating.
My mom immediately started crying and my dad was so angry. He yelled at me for being selfish and inconsiderate and then left. My mom said she didn’t know why I was doing this to her and that she could never forgive me if I name my baby after him. My step dad tried to get her to calm down but she wouldn’t and they left too.
I was completely shocked and numb. I really thought they would love the idea. My brother was my best friend. I miss him every day and I want my son to have the gift of his name.
I haven’t spoken to my mom or dad since they left. My step dad texted that he’s sorry for my moms behavior but I have to see her side.
I know that his death was bad for my parents and I get that they don’t want to be reminded of him dying all the time. But in my mind having a grandson with his name would be like a celebration of his life, not a reminder of his death.
Am I the asshole? Should I just pick a different name?
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2020.09.22 15:50 Suitable_Inspector94 Thoughts about size regarding previous post on amateur porn

Over the last period that i also got crazy about my size and what is truth in general about this topic, i've had same thoughts about it, such as most guys are a little bigger than average in amateur porn, many girls seem more enthusiastic in these cases, even what if presented data are not true in order to make us less insecure and ultimatelly, what if even average is not trully enough for most women and only big is...After literally days of thinking all these and being depressed the voice of sanity i think produced some thoughts regarding the above. 1) I don't want to be offensive to size queens or state that all of them have some problem, but guys look...As some commented on that previous post big guys of course are more confindent to produce any kind of porn material, but except that...Don't you really believe that most women willing to do this, are size queens? I mean seriously i believe that most of you have noticed a tendency for size queens to be kinda ''depraved'' sexually (enjoy great pain etc.) and some of them actually want abusive behaviours not only at sex. About the perceived enthusiasm, that's something that can put us down, but consider that non size queens would be more ''normal'' in their sexual behaviour so may seem to us sadly less enthusiastic than the other category which happens to be the majority in porn(even amateur) in contrast with real life. 2)They do exist some male professional porn actors that even on camera seem to be from 5.5 to max 6.5 inches. Tyler nixon is one of them and pornstars seem to enjoy him as much as the bigger ones. If you claim they fake, why not faking in huge guys as well? In fact that may be easier since their yellings can be actual pain instead of pleasure and just make it sound like pleasure. Many believe that James Dean is around six inches in reality and there are scenes that his partners seem beyond satisfied. 3)Both in amateur but mainly in professional productions, most of the times there is not full penetration, 3-5 inches go inside, max six or seven if the guy seems huge. Yes you will say that happens cause we need to see the penetration but still women seem to greatly enjoy that. So even porn kinda confirms practically (at least on length and not girth) that average size is pretty good in reality. 4)And now the most sane thought of mine i think about that matter. If we are to be mentally stable and reasonable and not letting our great insecurities and negative thoughts literally overpower our critical thinking and sanity, well here it is...SCIENCE and NATURE can NOT be liars on a physical matter like normal penis size. Do scientists say that people used to be shorter just to comfort the current short people? Is there a possibillity of average height being presented one inch less for the same reason? And if most men were 7 plus inches wouldn't that be declared by studies and accordingly the limit for micropenis would probably be 5 instead of 3 inches. We live in the 21st century, so homo sapiens sapiens is thousand of years in existence. Common sense says that if most women needed 7 or 8 inches to be really satisfied anatomically, evolution would have allready provided all men these sizes, i think i can't find a logical reason for the opossite. Those are the main thoughts i do in order to copy the negative ones that can really drive us crazy and try to figure out as much as possible about the objectivity of the matter(of course there are some prefferences in some people), i mean penis size is somethin that is provided by nature and nature seems wise (as a whole picture of caurse not every individual case and medical conditions)
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2020.09.22 13:31 adult-sex Womens Sex Toys What sex toys do women like?

Womens Sex Toys What sex toys do women like?
Womens Sex Toys What sex toys do women like?

Womens Sex Toys https://artbyrig.com A recent survey show that women over that age of 40 are the most concern about sex toys and are the most motivated to buy them, and the sexy underwear they were afraid to wear in the past has now become a hot commodity and they are generously drying it. It is well known that sex toys can be used not only when people have defects in their own sexual function or when they have no sexual partners, but also as an auxiliary means between normal couples. Human sexual love is not just sexual intercourse or just to get orgasm, but sexual harmony and sexual satisfaction are an important part of a couple's life.

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When people because of psychological, physiological and other problems can not complete sexual intercourse, should not be negative, do nothing attitude to treat, can use the body parts outside the genitals, with the help of drugs or sex tools to complete sexual activities. For example, if a man's penis cannot be erect, sexual intercourse cannot be completed, so the man can use his hands, mouth, tools and so on to provide non-genital contact sexual stimulation to the woman, so that the woman can get sexual satisfaction.

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Some people regard non-coital sexual activities as abnormal, abnormal and unhealthy, which are incorrect views or prejudices. Since people can use glasses, hearing AIDS and so on to solve the problem of vision and hearing deficiency, why can't they use sexual AIDS to solve the problem of sexual deficiency?Of course, sex is not omnipotent, after all, they are only a mechanical device, it can not replace people's emotional investment and psychological needs, so the establishment of a happy marriage and harmonious sexual life still has its significance. There is a student from abroad to his wife back to a sex, but his wife addicted to the fun brought by sex, no longer willing to sleep with her husband, the well-intentioned man dumbfounding, chagrined.

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In fact, on the one hand, this reflects the wife's lack of understanding of the couple's sexual life, on the other hand, it also reflects that there are quite unsatisfactory places in the past sexual life of both sides, and there is a lack of Frank communication between them. Later, with the help of the doctor, the couple reconciled, and the sex tool was no longer an obstacle to the exclusion of the husband, but a supplementary product to be added when necessary.For those who are hard to find a spouse, widowed or divorced, celibate and so on, in the absence of sexual partners and normal life, sex may be a better choice to solve their sexual outlet.
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2020.09.22 12:15 Unlikely_Pea_3151 I (22M) think that Women/Girls are conditioned to be terrified of turning 30.

Hey guys, I only recently turned 22 as of last month. Sucks I couldn't totally live up my 21st because of the pandemic but oh well. What I wanted to do was give some perspective from a young male (very immature) who is hearing his friends at 20-24 freaking out about getting "old". And it seemed really concerning to me that women have this pressure to remain youthful by the media etc. Especially in order to attract men (Yes I realise women can have different partners of different genders. And as I respect all genders and sexual orientations, I am just talking about in respect to male partners as I am a male). I had a chat to my now 25 year old sister about this and she confirmed the same concerns. I know this is obviously old news to many girls and women, but I've only now just heard the concerns from my high school/childhood friends.

Only 2 nights ago I had to console one of my close friends in tears. Lets call her Jane. Now since I've known Jane at 18, she's always been the one to cry or vomit or both after a few drinks. Usually she'd just be crying for stupid things like Justin Bieber getting married and was just being silly. But this time it was different, I could sense it and I can tell when something is off with her. After taking this crying seriously for the first time, I asked her why she was crying. To my shock it was because she's turning 24 this year and is freaking out about "not being as hot". Jesus Christ how we have socialised young girls and women in general is fucking horrendous. But I want to touch on that later and I know I'm very much preaching to the choir. Me being a complete idiot I kept saying "dude you're still hot, you're always gonna be hot"... I know right, I'm a real Dr Phil. lmao. Although my drunk 22 year old ass could only support her with the words of a guy with 0 eloquence when intoxicated, I actually thought I made a good point that not enough average men and especially young men don't speak up about.

When she finally calmed down she opened up about hearing that 21 is womens peak attractiveness etc etc and how she's terrified of being "old" and "gross" at 30. I was honestly even more horrified. I mean firstly 30 year olds are fucking hot, like I don't care what age you are (obviously of legal age) if you are hot, you are hot. Like thats just how it is with myself and especially my circle of friends being men (aged 18-24). How long you've been alive doesn't nullify the fact that you're attractive. if you're hot, men are going to find you hot. And on that note how the fuck is 30 old? The media are a bunch of fucking evil assholes who want to stress you out about being 30, they want you to keep reading, to buy anti ageing products, to go low Carb to slow ageing. They promote studies that show that women peak at 21 in attractiveness. But leave out the fact that we are humans and what we find attractive are multifactorial and vary like crazy. So any girls here who think they've passed their peak at 18 or at 21. You haven't. You're peaking until you fucking take your last breath. Also your looks are not your most important asset. You decide what your assets are. Thats for all people men, women, non binary etc. All of you are full of potential and deserve love. You should be comfortable in your skin, but also never stop improving yourself. Personally, I treat life like a project. I'm constantly tweaking myself like a 80 year long DIY project. Also stop reading major publications and think they are looking out for your interests. The Murdoch Press is fucking disgraceful. And are THE enemy of mental health and wellbeing in the west.
Now I guess many girls and women will be wondering what the real consensus is on which age group is the "hottest" in the opinion of a man(Yeah I know right my opinion is very important). Heres your answer. All of them and none of them. But let me get more specific.
I'm about to be very objective here. Let's say looks mean everything for a second (which they don't). And lets say men are exclusively into girls for their looks (they arent, but yes we are visual creatures and fertility is important to us). Good genetics and lifestyle as well as personality will always beat youth overall for men finding women attractive. If you were gorgeous at 18, at 21, at 25. With the expectation you keep fit and healthy (which really should be compulsory for everyone to eat well and exercise). Guess what? you'll be gorgeous at 28, at 30, at 35 etc. Bone structure, bilateral symmetry, genetics. these things make girls objectively beautiful. And thats all well and good. But its only a small piece of the puzzle. Lets also remember, you can be young and look like garbage as well. And be old and look like garbage as well.
I think heres a story that might put my opinion is better context.
I think there are a lot of pathetic guys out there that try to peddle the idea that women fall apart at 30. They usually resent women in their teens and 20s and assume that they'll get their revenge at 30. I am not one of them and although I have had quite a lot of success, proceeded and followed by a lot more failure with my attempts at sleeping with girls, I don't blame many of them for not wanting to fuck me. Like honestly I wouldn't fuck me either.
Women definitely do not fall apart in their 30s. Do they get older, I mean yeah you cant fight biology, but do they ugly at 30? Fuck no. All you beautiful girls reading this shit right now, you aren't going to suddenly look like a dogs dinner at 30. I'll give you an example. My ex girlfriends older sister was 25 when I met her (I was 17), lets call her Kate. And holy shit she had to be hottest woman I had ever met (sorry ex girl). Aggressive, Croatian, beautiful, tall, sharp eyes (I always say you can tell someones intelligence by their eyes and how they move) , brutally witty and brilliant, vicious sense of humour and a body that is actually insane. But you know what made her most attractive to me, her attitude, how she carried herself. Yes she was already objectively gorgeous, but she could've been considerably less physically good looking and I'd still go crazy for her. She's 30 now. And spoilers, she's still fucking hot holy shit. I came across her at a hospital that I was visiting as a software consultant (Btw we need more women in IT), she always had this intensity to her that made me literally drunk when i'd be around her. She called my name out as I was sort of awkwardly taking quick glances at her from over the counter whilst trying to explain to the VP of technology what a GUI was... He needs a new job.I think she always knew I was infatuated with her. She always had this way to make me embarrass myself around her and as she's gotten even smarter and mature at 30. I distinctly remember at 17 she made me go red when she asked what bikini she should wear I would always stumble over my words with her.
Back to the story: She asked what I was doing at the hospital and I put on my most mature demeanour , did my Alex Turner from 2013 voice and explained to her my role as a software consultant. I was wearing this awkward suit that I had bought the day before (I should've gotten my dad to come with me to help). And by acting mature, I thought in my head that this would make her take me more seriously. She replied "aww and you look so handsome now as well" she smiled with some menace, there was a power in-balance and I really had to get back to work as I felt my knees giving out. As I was attempting to exit the conversation she brought up my guitar playing as I was a musician professionally for a couple years. I let her know that I still play but I couldn't handle the rough hours and low pay that it entailed. She replied "Aww shame, I always thought I'd marry a musician". I almost fucking vomited with butterflies by that point. As I walked away smiling her eyes just followed me all the way back to my area until her coworker asked who I was. I didn't hear the rest of the convo. This was about 2 months ago. COVID was off the hook in my state back then. She has a fiance now (lucky bastard) and she's a Pharmacy researcher at the hospital, she has her phd in chemistry. She's a fucking badass and honestly I'd cut 3 fingers off to go on a date with that woman. For me women can have a certain presence or "vibe" for my fellow zoomers. Never-mind that, people of all genders can have that presence.
Theres a difference between a woman and the late teens, early 20s girls. Its competence, it's confidence, success, maturity, god Idk what it is. But jesus christ I honestly think I'm in love with that woman but she's out of my league in any category. Yeah she's my Ex girlfriends sister, but my ex isnt on my mind anymore, even after she broke my heart after a 4 year high school relationship, I still think Kate getting engaged hurt more.

So I hope that sort of helps. Numbered ages are arbitrary anyway. I know people who began getting wrinkles on their forehead before school finished. I saw guys go bald before 22. I'm actually going grey at 22 thanks to my mums side of the family but to my delight, her entire side of her family that are men, all had full heads of hair into their senior years. So I will take grey hairs thank you very much. People age at different rates and its all just genetic shit. Chronological ages dont line up as well to biological age as science first thought. We know there are lifestyle methods that can slow damage down or even prevent etc. But at 24 I don't know why my friend Jane would be too worried about ageing taking away her good looks.
I've slept with girls that are objectively said to be more attractive by some bullshit quantitive survey, like one girl who honestly was someone I use to drool over on instagram since I was a kid. As we were taking off each others clothes off, felt like I had hit a milestone in my life, sleeping with this "perfect" girl and Guess what, she was 21 at the time (now 22), apparently her "peak" of attractiveness and yeah she was/is hot but, if Kate walked into the room, at 30 (which is not fucking old) and asked if I wanted to have sex with her instead. I mean, I'm going for Kate. Though I'd probably go vagal (Medical joke for medical professionals, I'm not a medical professional). Meaning I'd faint just incase someone doesn't get it.
After sleeping with this girl let's call her Darcy which is her actual first name. I didn't really feel attracted to her other than objectively, and once we had sex, she didn't have the confidence or the character that drew me to other people. She wasn't particularly interesting, she talked about what alcohol she likes to drink and why her friends are so lame, gossip and really just things I wasn't ever going to be interested in. Our interests didn't align and personality wise she just wasn't someone I think I could even be friends with. And I honestly felt like all those years fantasising about this girl that I would see on instagram and a few time at clubs with mutual friends. The hours of instagram dms trying to be as charming as I could, meeting up with her at bars, playing a character of confidence so she would find me attractive. Eventually seducing her. It didn't mean shit. There was no stage, no curtains opening and trumpets sounding as I received my certificate of having sex with a girl I'd been crushing on for 4 years. There wasn't anything really.

I left her parents house and I didn't tell my mates because I almost felt mislead by my penis. Also I knew my mates would never believe me if i told them. I had actually called her in the morning and left a voicemail letting her know that I think she's a great person but I need to figure out my shit before even doing something casual. Which was the truth. I really didn't know what to feel then. I felt like the last 4 years was an illusion almost just fantasising about sleeping with her, it seemed like a waste of time at that point. My mates did find out the following day as Darcy turned up at my house with a blanket and some snacks for a Netflix and Chill that we "definitely" planned the previous night. I was mortified. House was not in order as I have ADHD and its a mission to keep my house organised. I am also not that good looking so I was confused as to why she liked me so much. I thought I struck out lucky once and that was the end of it. I was completely honest with her and let her know where I was in our newly complicated relationship and she said she heard my voicemail and respected my decision. With myself being mentally weak it only took her in some gooseberry intimates (which were literally see through so whats the point) to break the deal of being platonic. I felt that she manipulated me sexually, but how does one complain about this stunning girl using your own base drive against you. "Boohoo... This blonde bombshell just manipulated me breaking into my commitment to remain platonic." After that I told her not to come around anymore and just to be friends. 6 months since then and she still invites me over. What confuses me to this day is I don't see myself as very attractive, so I was confused as to why this happened. But I digress.
Yes Darcy is fucking like an actual work of art, but my attraction was one dimensional. And even the girls that people find the most "stunning" have wrinkles and uneven skin tone, stretch marks etc. She had all that. Which are human signs of imperfection. But so what? Like really, those things don't bother the men you want to sleep with either. That is, if we are talking about looking attractive to men anyway. I've learnt from my sister that girls and women don't just want to look good for prospective partners, but for self expression, self confidence and also its really "none of my business" as she put it. Which is fair enough and I'm glad I learnt that before acting like I know a lot about women because I'm clueless in all senses.
What I've learnt is beauty is overrated, sex is great, but its overrated. People are underrated. Intelligence is underrated, experience is not appreciated, success can be sexist, people don't appreciate things until its too late. Women, can be fucking incredible. Women can also be fucking crazy. Men can be incredible. Men can also be fucking crazy. This includes every gender, every race, every specie on this planet. But humans are more than just flesh and bone. We are fascinating, binary breaking, spectrum sitting, war waging, oppression fighting, dreamers. And to take anyone at face value is a huge disservice to what a human is. Humans are not great because of what we look like. We are great because of what we do. And that my friends is the takeaway. To everyone freaking out about turning 30. You're gonna be fine, i was told your 30s is like your glow-up period of your 20s. You'll be wiser, richer, more respected, smarter, more educated and start to realise that looks are arbitrary bullshit that is only part of the puzzle and you'll still be attractive. Look after yourself and your 30s will look after you. Once again this is a 22 year old male's perspective on women getting older. I might get flamed for something I say but I recognise that I'm not perfect and I'm willing to learn. I really don't know a lot about the world yet as i'm still young and stupid but I wanted to provide a bit of realism to the fears of many young beautiful souls out there.
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2020.09.22 12:11 Unlikely_Pea_3151 Women/Girls are terrified of turning 30 and I (22M) wanted to give some perspective from the opposite sex.

Hey guys, I only recently turned 22 as of last month. Sucks I couldn't totally live up my 21st because of the pandemic but oh well. What I wanted to do was give some perspective from a young male (very immature) who is hearing his friends at 20-24 freaking out about getting "old". And it seemed really concerning to me that women have this pressure to remain youthful by the media etc. Especially in order to attract men (Yes I realise women can have different partners of different genders. And as I respect all genders and sexual orientations, I am just talking about in respect to male partners as I am a male). I had a chat to my now 25 year old sister about this and she confirmed the same concerns. I know this is obviously old news to many girls and women, but I've only now just heard the concerns from my high school/childhood friends.

Only 2 nights ago I had to console one of my close friends in tears. Lets call her Jane. Now since I've known Jane at 18, she's always been the one to cry or vomit or both after a few drinks. Usually she'd just be crying for stupid things like Justin Bieber getting married and was just being silly. But this time it was different, I could sense it and I can tell when something is off with her. After taking this crying seriously for the first time, I asked her why she was crying. To my shock it was because she's turning 24 this year and is freaking out about "not being as hot" and "no guy will want me". Jesus Christ how we have socialised young girls and women in general is fucking horrendous. But I want to touch on that later and I know I'm very much preaching to the choir. Me being a complete idiot I kept saying "dude you're still hot, you're always gonna be hot"... I know right, I'm a real Dr Phil. lmao. Although my drunk 22 year old ass could only support her with the words of a guy with 0 eloquence when intoxicated, I actually thought I made a good point that not enough average men and especially young men don't speak up about.

When she finally calmed down she opened up about hearing that 21 is womens peak attractiveness etc etc and how she's terrified of being "old" and "gross" at 30. I was honestly even more horrified. I mean firstly 30 year olds are fucking hot, like I don't care what age you are (obviously of legal age) if you are hot, you are hot. And women in their 30s are still fucking hot. Like thats just how it is with myself and especially my circle of friends being men (aged 18-24). How long you've been alive doesn't nullify the fact that you're attractive. if you're hot, men are going to find you hot. And on that note how the fuck is 30 old?
The media are a bunch of fucking evil assholes who want to stress you out about being 30, they want you to keep reading, to buy anti ageing products, to go low Carb to slow ageing. They promote studies that show that women peak at 21 in attractiveness. But leave out the fact that we are humans and what we find attractive are multifactorial and vary like crazy. So any girls here who think they've passed their peak at 18 or at 21. You haven't. You're peaking until you fucking take your last breath. Also your looks are not your most important asset. You decide what your assets are. Thats for all people men, women, non binary etc. All of you are full of potential and deserve love. You should be comfortable in your skin, but also never stop improving yourself. Personally, I treat life like a project. I'm constantly tweaking myself like a 80 year long DIY project. Also stop reading major publications and think they are looking out for your interests. The Murdoch Press is fucking disgraceful. And are THE enemy of mental health and wellbeing in the west.
Now I guess many girls and women will be wondering what the real consensus is on which age group is the "hottest" in the opinion of a man(Yeah I know right my opinion is very important). Heres your answer. All of them and none of them. But let me get more specific.
I'm about to be very objective here. Let's say looks mean everything for a second (which they don't). And lets say men are exclusively into girls for their looks (they arent, but yes we are visual creatures and fertility is important to us). Good genetics and lifestyle as well as personality will always beat youth overall for men finding women attractive. If you were gorgeous at 18, at 21, at 25. With the expectation you keep fit and healthy (which really should be compulsory for everyone to eat well and exercise). Guess what? you'll be gorgeous at 28, at 30, at 35 etc. Bone structure, bilateral symmetry, genetics. these things make girls objectively beautiful. And thats all well and good. But its only a small piece of the puzzle. Lets also remember, you can be young and look like garbage as well. And be old and look like garbage as well.
I think heres a story that might put my opinion is better context.
I think there are a lot of pathetic guys out there that try to peddle the idea that women fall apart at 30. They usually resent women in their teens and 20s and assume that they'll get their revenge at 30. I am not one of them and although I have had quite a lot of success, proceeded and followed by a lot more failure with my attempts at sleeping with girls, I don't blame many of them for not wanting to fuck me. Like honestly I wouldn't fuck me either.
Women definitely do not fall apart in their 30s. Do they get older, I mean yeah you cant fight biology, but do they ugly at 30? Fuck no. All you beautiful girls reading this shit right now, you aren't going to suddenly look like a dogs dinner at 30. I'll give you an example. My ex girlfriends older sister was 25 when I met her (I was 17), lets call her Kate. And holy shit she had to be hottest woman I had ever met (sorry ex girl). Aggressive, Croatian, beautiful, tall, sharp eyes (I always say you can tell someones intelligence by their eyes and how they move) , brutally witty and brilliant, vicious sense of humour and a body that is actually insane. But you know what made her most attractive to me, her attitude, how she carried herself. Yes she was already objectively gorgeous, but she could've been considerably less physically good looking and I'd still go crazy for her. She's 30 now. And spoilers, she's still fucking hot holy shit. I came across her at a hospital that I was visiting as a software consultant (Btw we need more women in IT), she always had this intensity to her that made me literally drunk when i'd be around her. She called my name out as I was sort of awkwardly taking quick glances at her from over the counter whilst trying to explain to the VP of technology what a GUI was... He needs a new job.I think she always knew I was infatuated with her. She always had this way to make me embarrass myself around her and as she's gotten even smarter and mature at 30. I distinctly remember at 17 she made me go red when she asked what bikini she should wear I would always stumble over my words with her.
Back to the story: She asked what I was doing at the hospital and I put on my most mature demeanour , did my Alex Turner from 2013 voice and explained to her my role as a software consultant. I was wearing this awkward suit that I had bought the day before (I should've gotten my dad to come with me to help). And by acting mature, I thought in my head that this would make her take me more seriously. She replied "aww and you look so handsome now as well" she smiled with some menace, there was a power in-balance and I really had to get back to work as I felt my knees giving out. As I was attempting to exit the conversation she brought up my guitar playing as I was a musician professionally for a couple years. I let her know that I still play but I couldn't handle the rough hours and low pay that it entailed. She replied "Aww shame, I always thought I'd marry a musician". I almost fucking vomited with butterflies by that point. As I walked away smiling her eyes just followed me all the way back to my area until her coworker asked who I was. I didn't hear the rest of the convo. This was about 2 months ago. COVID was off the hook in my state back then. She has a fiance now (lucky bastard) and she's a Pharmacy researcher at the hospital, she has her phd in chemistry. She's a fucking badass and honestly I'd cut 3 fingers off to go on a date with that woman. For me women can have a certain presence or "vibe" for my fellow zoomers. Never-mind that, people of all genders can have that presence.
Theres a difference between a woman and the late teens, early 20s girls. Its competence, it's confidence, success, maturity, god Idk what it is. But jesus christ I honestly think I'm in love with that woman but she's out of my league in any category. Yeah she's my Ex girlfriends sister, but my ex isnt on my mind anymore, even after she broke my heart after a 4 year high school relationship, I still think Kate getting engaged hurt more.

So I hope that sort of helps. Numbered ages are arbitrary anyway. I know people who began getting wrinkles on their forehead before school finished. I saw guys go bald before 22. I'm actually going grey at 22 thanks to my mums side of the family but to my delight, her entire side of her family that are men, all had full heads of hair into their senior years. So I will take grey hairs thank you very much. People age at different rates and its all just genetic shit. Chronological ages dont line up as well to biological age as science first thought. We know there are lifestyle methods that can slow damage down or even prevent etc. But at 24 I don't know why my friend Jane would be too worried about ageing taking away her good looks.
I've slept with girls that are objectively said to be more attractive by some bullshit quantitive survey, like one girl who honestly was someone I use to drool over on instagram since I was a kid. As we were taking off each others clothes off, felt like I had hit a milestone in my life, sleeping with this "perfect" girl and Guess what, she was 21 at the time (now 22), apparently her "peak" of attractiveness and yeah she was/is hot but, if Kate walked into the room, at 30 (which is not fucking old) and asked if I wanted to have sex with her instead. I mean, I'm going for Kate. Though I'd probably go vagal (Medical joke for medical professionals, I'm not a medical professional). Meaning I'd faint just incase someone doesn't get it.
After sleeping with this girl let's call her Darcy which is her actual first name. I didn't really feel attracted to her other than objectively, and once we had sex, she didn't have the confidence or the character that drew me to other people. She wasn't particularly interesting, she talked about what alcohol she likes to drink and why her friends are so lame, gossip and really just things I wasn't ever going to be interested in. Our interests didn't align and personality wise she just wasn't someone I think I could even be friends with. And I honestly felt like all those years fantasising about this girl that I would see on instagram and a few time at clubs with mutual friends. The hours of instagram dms trying to be as charming as I could, meeting up with her at bars, playing a character of confidence so she would find me attractive. Eventually seducing her. It didn't mean shit. There was no stage, no curtains opening and trumpets sounding as I received my certificate of having sex with a girl I'd been crushing on for 4 years. There wasn't anything really.

I left her parents house and I didn't tell my mates because I almost felt mislead by my penis. Also I knew my mates would never believe me if i told them. I had actually called her in the morning and left a voicemail letting her know that I think she's a great person but I need to figure out my shit before even doing something casual. Which was the truth. I really didn't know what to feel then. I felt like the last 4 years was an illusion almost just fantasising about sleeping with her, it seemed like a waste of time at that point. My mates did find out the following day as Darcy turned up at my house with a blanket and some snacks for a Netflix and Chill that we "definitely" planned the previous night. I was mortified. House was not in order as I have ADHD and its a mission to keep my house organised. I am also not that good looking so I was confused as to why she liked me so much. I thought I struck out lucky once and that was the end of it. I was completely honest with her and let her know where I was in our newly complicated relationship and she said she heard my voicemail and respected my decision. With myself being mentally weak it only took her in some gooseberry intimates (which were literally see through so whats the point) to break the deal of being platonic. I felt that she manipulated me sexually, but how does one complain about this stunning girl using your own base drive against you. "Boohoo... This blonde bombshell just manipulated me breaking into my commitment to remain platonic." After that I told her not to come around anymore and just to be friends. 6 months since then and she still invites me over. What confuses me to this day is I don't see myself as very attractive, so I was confused as to why this happened. But I digress.
Yes Darcy is fucking like an actual work of art, but my attraction was one dimensional. And even the girls that people find the most "stunning" have wrinkles and uneven skin tone, stretch marks etc. She had all that. Which are human signs of imperfection. But so what? Like really, those things don't bother the men you want to sleep with either. That is, if we are talking about looking attractive to men anyway. I've learnt from my sister that girls and women don't just want to look good for prospective partners, but for self expression, self confidence and also its really "none of my business" as she put it. Which is fair enough and I'm glad I learnt that before acting like I know a lot about women because I'm clueless in all senses.
What I've learnt is beauty is overrated, sex is great, but its overrated. People are underrated. Intelligence is underrated, experience is not appreciated, success can be sexist, people don't appreciate things until its too late. Women, can be fucking incredible. Women can also be fucking crazy. Men can be incredible. Men can also be fucking crazy. This includes every gender, every race, every specie on this planet. But humans are more than just flesh and bone. We are fascinating, binary breaking, spectrum sitting, war waging, oppression fighting, dreamers. And to take anyone at face value is a huge disservice to what a human is. Humans are not great because of what we look like. We are great because of what we do. And that my friends is the takeaway. To everyone freaking out about turning 30. You're gonna be fine, i was told your 30s is like your glow-up period of your 20s. You'll be wiser, richer, more respected, smarter, more educated and start to realise that looks are arbitrary bullshit that is only part of the puzzle and you'll still be attractive. Look after yourself and your 30s will look after you. Once again this is a 22 year old male's perspective on women getting older. I might get flamed for something I say but I recognise that I'm not perfect and I'm willing to learn. I really don't know a lot about the world yet as i'm still young and stupid but I wanted to provide a bit of realism to the fears of many young beautiful souls out there.
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2020.09.22 11:28 Wannabe_Sadboi Discussing The Serfs TV vs. Lilo and Stitch (Why Principles Matter, Why Hypotheticals Matter, and Why The "Moral Vacuum" Argument Is A Bad One)

Not A Manifesto

Hello, u/serfspodcast (and interested Destiny users). I wanted to start about by saying directly to Lance that I am a big fan of the work them and their partner do, sometimes to the chagrin of other people on this sub. I was a fan before they ever interacted with Destiny, and have always enjoyed their content. Some thing I find particularly enjoyable is the re-occurring bits that Thought Slime and them do shitting on Tim Pool's content, who would be extremely unintentionally funny if it wasn't for how much actual harm he does. I say all this for two reasons: because I want to commend him and his partner on work well done, and because I want him to know this critique comes in the hope that it can be constructive and good faith.
I'm going to be discussing this video, entitled "Adam Friended & Stitch DEBATE (People vs. Property & Self Defense)". This video begins with a little clip from the middle of the debate, presumably one that Lance believes to be an absurd and funny clip that shows the dumb arguments of the people he's making and entices the viewer to keep going. This isn't a bad tactic, one he frequently uses, and one that many Destiny debate videos have opened with.
This particular clip, however, rather than serving to make the people he's debating looks bad, actually serves a nice way of highlighting the problems that plague his arguments throughout this entire debate. Adam Friended & Stitch (I'm just gonna address them as AFS from here on out because I don't know which is which and who's saying what) ask Lance if, after Rosenbaum chases Kyle Rittenhouse down and forcibly takes his gun away, Kyle would then be justified in pulling out a second gun and shooting him. Lance immediately begins laughing, makes some joke about a squirrel with a knife, and then continues to make some point about Kyle Rittenhouse pulling an "even smaller gun" from his penis.
But what is actually happening in this clip? When we watch the actual debate, it becomes clear. ASF is making the argument that Kyle is justified in shooting Rosenbaum because he tried to take his gun away, and then use it on Rittenhouse. He is highlighting this by discussing an example where Rosenbaum now has Kyle's gun and is still aggressing on him, and asking now if Lance believes Kyle would be justified in shooting Rosenbaum. He is trying to either illustrate to Lance his point that Rosenbaum's actions constitute lethal intent, and trying to figure out why Lance disagrees, by showing him the natural situation it would lead to if Rosenbaum gets Kyle's gun. Rather than address this argument, Lance laughs and makes jokes.
This is not the only time there is a failure to communicate. Right around here, AFS asks Lance how Kyle running away is not de-escalating. This gets into a back and forth situation where Lance appears to not understand what's being asked, and instead of giving examples of how running away would not be de-escalating, he gives examples of how Kyle could have threatened Rosenbaum or people earlier, which ignores AFS's point, especially as he proposes a hypothetical with the premise that Kyle threatens Rosenbaum, then runs away.
I say all of this to highlight that I'm not entirely sure where Lance was misunderstanding and where he was perhaps being a little bit uncharitable. If I have misinterpreted his positions or things he's said in this video, that was my mistake. But what I wanted to do is break down his argument against Kyle and perhaps explain to him why some of the tactics I believe he was engaging in were either unproductive or unhelpful to this conversation, and don't serve as valid counterpoints to the points he was getting.
THE SERF'S 3 REQUIREMENTS FOR SELF DEFENSE
Early on in the video, Lance proposes three conditions that must be satisfied for an act of self defense to be morally justified:
  1. The imminence of the threat that's coming towards you.
  2. The necessity for you act out against that threat.
  3. The proportionality of your actions in relation to the harm that's being threatened against you.
He then makes a comment about "we're basically talking about pre-cog here", which I think is a weird statement that doesn't serve to further the discussion. He says you're trying to prevent future crime, but I don't think that fits here at all. You're trying to defend yourself from something that you can reasonably think is a threat to your life, but you're doing that in response to a threat that's presently happening. The pre-cog statement would be much more fitting if, for example, I got in a fight with someone at the bar, the fight got broken up, and then I went home, got my gun, and then (in a video game) traveled to their house and murdered them because I believed that in the future they would seek out violent retribution for the fight. It would not be a "pre-cog" for me to use my gun to defend myself if they followed me home after the fight and broke into my house, even if I'm not 100% sure they're there to hurt me.
So, I will argue on these points. I am not going to argue for a moral justification on the defense of property, because first of all I don't agree with the points that AFS made and that's not really my gripe with Lance. I have a lower level at which I believe property can be defended than both Destiny and AFS, and although I have a slightly different moral framework than Lance for discussing self defense, I am more than happy to discuss it in his framework.
(1) is clearly satisfied, the threat is immediate and happening to Kyle at the moment he acts in self defense. (2) is also met: Rosenbaum is reaching for his gun, they are engaged in a struggle, and Kyle has his last chance to defend himself from Rosenbaum taking his gun. I am saying these quickly because they seem to be points that Lance agrees with: he agrees with 1 explicitly, and says he would agree that (2) was met as long as (3) is also met.
With (3), the harm that Kyle has a reasonable fear of is that Rosenbaum will take his gun and use it against Kyle. He is already coming at him with clear hostile intent (shouting "Fuck you", running him down, and now attempting to take his firearm away), and is about to have clear hostile intent and a gun. If someone was running at you with a gun and displaying clear hostile intent, I believe that you could justifiably believe that person to be a threat to your life. Because of the above requirements of immediacy and necessity to act out against the threat being made, I absolutely think it's proportional, if your life is being threatened, to respond to that threat with lethal force.
" 'Well that's what the law says!' I'm sick of this, a hundred years ago I could beat you with a mop handle and go 'Well that's what the law says!’, doesn’t mean it’s right!”- Bill Burr
I do love me some Bill Burr, but I brought up this point because I constantly see legal and moral arguments being conflated, and Lance is no exception. These simply don't work, because there are immoral and unjust laws, as although laws are designed in some regards to codify our mortality, it is an imperfect system. It is my belief that if a law is accurate and just, you should be able to make a moral argument for that law. But you can't do the opposite: stating that something is legal or illegal will never be an argument for why something is morally good or morally bad.
I can think of plenty of illegal things that I'd consider to be morally good or at least morally neutral (recreational drug use, crossing a border illegally to find better opportunities), and many immoral things that are perfectly legal (cheating on your partner, distributing political misinformation). If these legal arguments are sound and just, then we should be able to find moral ones that would come to the same or similar conclusions, and should just stick to those.
"You Just Want A Yes Or No Answer" - On Principles And Hypotheticals, And Why It Matters Why You Think What You Do
I want to first start by saying that the debate should have never even gotten to this point. There are two arguments you can take if you disagree morally with what Kyle did: you can argue that the act itself was not morally justified (which Lance did), or you can argue that even if the action itself (in a "moral vacuum") was not immoral, Kyle's actions leading up him being aggressed upon were so morally reprehensible that he voided his right to self defense (which Lance also did). The issue is that if you believe that the action itself is not morally justified, you shouldn't even have to go to the second argument. If you find that you have to retreat to this second argument, the reality is that you don't actually believe the action in and of itself is morally wrong.
I mention this because these are in a hierarchy. If it's just wrong for someone to shoot someone chasing them and trying to grab their gun in self defense, you don't need to go to the actions before or how Kyle got there as your argument. However, when pressed on this argument, it seems like Lance retreats to the second argument, rather than standing and simply defending that position. At this point in the video, Lance lists some reasons he doesn't think Kyle is morally justified (he crossed state lines, was in illegal possession of a firearm) and states "he wasn't just an innocent bystander". This statement implies that had Kyle "Just been an innocent bystander", and then the exchange with him and Rosenbaum went down the way it does in the video, he would be justified in shooting him in self defense. However, Lance doesn't agree with this, which is why my advice would be that if he does not, he should never go to these other arguments, because it makes him look like his initial argument is too weak.
So here, I just want to really quickly talk about what we discuss hypotheticals or these conditions. In terms of a disagreement here, you need to get to what the major line of disagreement is. These people (and Destiny before them) want to know why Lance believes it to be immoral. Further more, once that’s given, they want to explain their disagreement with him by showing why they believe these principles fail in other areas. This is important, because if you say something is wrong but use principles that you clearly wouldn’t use in other areas, then you don’t actually have a good logical reason to believe this thing is wrong. Later in this post, I will give a direct response to what I believe to be Lance’s main critique, explaining why I believe his principles wouldn’t hold up by providing a situation from my own experience where it seems his principles would dictate me losing my right to self defense, which I believe is a fundamental part of having a right to life.
With that being said, he does not seem to understand the point of their attacks on these statements. AFS are asking which specific condition voids Kyle's right to self defense, while, being charitable to Lance, it seems Lance's assertion is that all of these conditions combine to make him think that Kyle was being so aggressive in this situation that he loses his right to defend himself. This is the stronger point, because as Lance admits, none of these things on their own are actually conditions that even he believes void someone's right to self defense.
With that being said, his actual version of the second argument, which ends up getting bogged down because AFS ask him questions which responds to with further questions, is a simple one: "Looking at the circumstances with which Kyle came to be in that situation, they seem to me to be so reckless or looking for violence that he loses his right to self defense." However, this statement presents its own problem, as several of these things aren't actually relevant to his argument here. For example, it doesn't seem that Lance would be okay with what Kyle did if he was 18, lived in the state, and could legally carry a firearm, but still went to defend a car dealership that didn't belong to him. This is what AFS are trying to figure out, and Lance bringing up these things muddies the waters of his real argument and makes it difficult for them to get to the real point of disagreement.
The issue is that this argument quickly falls apart upon real examination. It's not a question of "Can you shoot someone to defend property?" - the shooting did not happen because Kyle was defending property. It's not as if Rosenbaum was trashing the dealership, and Kyle shot him dead. They also later have a discussion of if showing up with a gun to a riot is an aggressive action that you can be attacked for: when Lance is directly asked "Does that act of aggression alone [showing up with a gun to defend property] merit someone attacking you", Lance replies "No it doesn't." (He then makes the claim that trying to take the gun is actually de-escalation by Rosenbaum, although running away isn't)
Why The "Moral Vacuum" Argument Isn't A Good One
This is something that not only Lance says, but a variety of people on the left have used against Kyle. The argument here is the second argument we talked about above, that even if Kyle was justified in his actions in a vacuum, his actions before invalidate his right to self defense. However, the only things that I believe can invalidate your right to self defense is if the person who is enacting violence against you is himself acting in defense to you initiating violence upon him.
Is Kyle initiating violence against Rosenbaum himself? There is no evidence to suggest this. Kyle showing up with a gun to a dangerous situation, ready to defend himself if necessary, while doing something illegal (possessing the firearm) and doing something Lance believes to be immoral (defending someone else's property) does not count as violence against Rosenbaum, and is not otherwise enough to invalidate Kyle's right to defend himself.
To illustrate the second point, I will use an example from my own past. Although I am now almost five years sober, I was formerly both a drug addict and a drug dealer. I used to go to bad, violent neighborhoods to sell drugs (a dangerous situation), in possession of an unregistered firearm that I intend to use to defend myself if necessary, while doing something that most people would believe to be immoral (selling drugs). I do not believe that if someone attacked me and tried to take my gun away from me, I would give up my right to self defense. I believe this even though I would be meeting similar conditions to everything Kyle did, knowingly putting myself in a more dangerous situation, intentionally bringing something that increases the chances of an encounter ending with lethal force, and doing something both illegal and immoral.
But hey, what if the video Lance talks about was correct and Kyle did previously point his gun at some people and tell them to get off the car? Fine, let's add this to the example. Lets say that earlier in the night, I have an encounter with some people, I brandish my firearm, and tell them to fuck off. Later on that night, someone else at a party I'm at, who has heard about what happened (assuming also that Rosenbaum knew what had happened and was aggressing for that reason), goes to attack me and try to get my gun. I run out of the party, and keep running until this person chases me down and attempts to reach for the gun. At that point, I fire, afraid that they will use my own gun to kill me.
Do I give up my own right to defend myself morally because I threatened some other people earlier? Do I give up my own right to defend myself because I put myself in dangerous situation while doing something illegal? I think the answer to both are no, and I think, to conclude all of this, that I can actually argue no because there is no way that the actions the aggressor would take against me would be immediate, necessary, or proportional.
They are choosing to continue the situation by chasing me (as Rosenbaum chased Kyle), so they are the ones creating the immediacy of the situation, while also ignoring all other options and thus ignoring the necessity part of the self defense principles. Okay, so (1) and (2) are not met. At the same time, proportionally, I am not threatening them: my actions are to run away, not to currently threaten their life in any way. They are responding to this with an escalation in harm, threatening me with physical harm, loss of life, and the theft of my property (my gun).
To conclude, the moral vacuum argument is a bad one because no one thinks these actions happen in a vacuum. People think that if you are saying these actions are okay in a vacuum, you have to explain why it is not okay with context prior given. Lance, similar to other left leaning content creators who discussed the Rittenhouse situation, has not given a good reasoning for why this context invalidates the justification for self defense.
Conclusion
In summary, there are a few issues with this video. First of all, Lance bounces between the argument of A. whether the action itself is justified or B. if the action would normally be justified but isn't by Kyle's circumstances, when he should be sticking to argument A if he believes it is not justified. Second, the existence of unjust laws, illegal things that are moral, and legal things that are moral shows us that a legal discussion has no place in a moral discussion, and that the moral discussion is the more important one. Finally, even after extracting Lance's arguments for both argument A and B, neither of them, even when viewed in the lens of his own framework, show that Kyle was not justified in his actions. Kyle is justified in his defense by the three principles of self defense that Lance lays out, and he never adequately explains what action Kyle takes prior to the altercation between Rosenbaum, other than speculation we have no evidence for, that invalidated his right to self defense.
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2020.09.22 10:58 dreamatcha1 Barely remember the facts, don't know how to process

Hey guys sorry its 5am and I'm feeling really anxious so this might not be the most coherent post but I just kind of wanted to get this off my chest and talk with someone. TW for CSA obviously so please don't read if it'll trigger you. I'm 21f and around a year ago my friend was dating someone who had been molested as a child and after she told me his story I started having flashbacks to what I suspect is abuse that happened to me. The trouble is I only remember a few things, and even those things I only remember vaguely--it was by a close friend of my father, who also was his roommate (parents are divorced). I remember him masturbating in front of me while I was in the room when I was around age 8 and I'm haunted by the memory of him audibly moaning. I also have another memory of a similar thing around age 12, and I have a vague younger memory of seeing a penis for the first time in my life in the shower and feeling uncomfortable (I remember the wall and the shower curtain very vividly). I also remember always feeling unsafe around him and hating that I had to be around him all the time, and one day when I was around 13 I had an absolute crying breakdown where I told my dad I never wanted to see him again and that was the last time I saw him (no idea if they're still in contact). Beyond this I truly don't know if anything else happened. I have no memory of him touching me which kind of makes me think I'm exaggerating or making up the trauma, but thinking about these memories makes me sick and fills me with a sense of full-body panic and recently I can't stop compulsively thinking about them and triggering myself.
I was a sensitive kid in general and I remember as a child I struggled for a period of time with constant guilt and intrusive thoughts, particularly about sex and about a fear of being penetratively r*ped. I also compulsively masturbated from a young age although that might be natural for some kids idk. I had a fear of most men (teachers, doctors, even family members) growing up and for a while believed I was lesbian or asexual because of it. I also have struggled with anxiety, bulimia, depression on and off throughout my life . Now I'm in a loving and caring relationship for over a year thankfully but I am struggling with having panic attacks during sex, I am unable to orgasm at all with my partner and never have, and if I get close to orgasm I basically get too anxious and have to stop or I'll have a panic attack, he thankfully is really patient with me but I do feel really bad and guilty about it. I also am into r*pekink and ddlg and basically can't get turned on unless he's saying fucked up things to me (I know being kinky is not always a result of abuse but I can't shake the sense that in my case it is at least partially.)
Was I abused?? If so how do I proceed to heal myself? I guess I'm worried that if I start therapy for this I'll unnecessarily give power to these memories if this wasn't actually abuse or if it wasn't actually that bad, and also that if I start therapy I'll never be able to stop having these anxious thoughts/feelings if I actually have to talk about this stuff.... I feel like the panic attacks around sex and intense anxiety I'm having recently might be related to this stuff but I'm not sure if I'm exaggerating the connection since I have no memories of actually being touched. This was longer than I intended so thanks for reading xxx
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2020.09.22 09:00 Maddx82 Simple positions hurt

For some reason sex is difficult for me [21F] and my partner [21M] unless it’s missionary. Even if I just get on top it’s difficult and a little painful...almost as if the angle isn’t right. To fix that though we tried moving into a simple position with me on top, with his penis still inserted and it still hurt and was uncomfortable. I don’t know what to do. If he tries to enter me from behind it’s a similar situation. I’m not sure what to do?
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2020.09.22 06:40 Wereling929 A story with a happy ending

So I'm getting a divorce. I'm not going to get into all of the reasons why, but soothe to say its for the best.
Important details: I'm a trans man and grey-asexual
I met my now ex-husband 6 years ago. I was at the tail end of a relationship with my previous boyfriend but still living with him as I hadn't found a new place yet.
I'd had poly relationships in the past that never worked out. A girlfriend that cheated on me with her roommate before approaching the concept of an open relationship. My ex-boyfriend who later told me that he only wanted to be open because he wanted the option to go back to his ex-boyfriend.
Anyway, on to the story:
I moved in with my now ex-husband after dating him for a month because I didn't have anywhere else to go and couldn't keep living with my ex-boyfriend, who was having a nasty bout of depression and begging me constantly to take him back.
When my ex-husband approached me about being in an open relationship I was leery and deeply uncomfortable. I'd only ever had negative experiences with poly and didn't think I could do it again. I declined the request for an open relationship and he dropped it for about 24 hours.
For weeks everything was an argument about him wanting to sleep with other people. He finally gave me the ultimatum: either we were poly, or he was going to cheat on me. I didn't know what to do. He guilted me, using my transness and sexuality against me. I didn't have a penis, and he needed to have sex with someone who has a real penis or he wouldn't be happy. I had a low sex drive, and therefore it was only fair that he got to go out and have sex with other people.
Here's the big problem: Either I bit my tongue and let him go and do what he wanted, or I was homeless.
Choosing my survival, I agreed to his demands. As long as I didn't have to hear about his sex life, and as long as he used condoms, I chose not to care what he did. In time, I learned to be okay with what he was doing, which in hindsight was definitely a trauma response. I never indulged in the open aspects of our relationship.
Well, everything changed about 6 months ago. We moved in with a woman and her partner and I really got involved with her. I very quickly fell in love with her, and she was so sweet and kind to me in ways I didn't realize I was starved for.
My ex was happy for me to my face. Thrilled, even, that I was finally getting out there. I came to find out, from a mutual friend, that my ex was furious with jealousy and a) wanted my new girlfriend for himself, b) wanted me to break up with her and never date anyone but him ever again, and c) was plotting to get my new girlfriend's other partner to break up with her too and leave the picture entirely.
He actually ended up carrying out a plot to get us to only pay attention to him and never have alone time together. It backfired, I got closer to her, and broke up with him.
He's gone now, and I'm working on my divorce papers. I'm in an open relationship with a wonderful woman that listens to my feelings and makes me feel like I'm amazing. I'm friends with her other partner, and we all regularly spend a lot of time together and are happy. I feel very blessed these days, and am fortunate that my bad relationship with my husband ended up bringing me here to this moment. I am healing, and learning, and living a wonderful new life.
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2020.09.22 06:37 DamianDaws I'm not sure what these bumps are but I'm really concerned

For a year now since I've noticed, I've had these tiny bumps on my penis. They don't hurt, feel painful, get itchy or bust. I do not have any burning sensations or bleeding or any lesions. I have absolutely no symptoms or problems with my skin and it's been over a year. I do have sex quite often and have been engaged with the same partner for 4 months now. I don't know where they've come from or what they may mean but I don't think it's normal. Is something like this normal for guys? I'm a 25 year old male and just want the right answers. I'll be going to the doctor soon just in case, but I thought someone here could also help clarify and maybe provide a solution. Image is below!
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2020.09.22 03:37 Steve_Chandler__ Official Card Friday Night Smackdown (September 25th, 2020)

HEYYY HEYYYY what

Opener!

u/O_M_B v. u/JTJaysonTitus - Last week OMB's three week winning streak came to an end, possibly putting a dent in that "GREATEST ROOKIE EVERRRR" armor. So we'll give him another big rookie on Smackdown, somebody he went up against in Last Week's Main event, in fact! So let's see who'll be able to snag some big money momentum in this match between rookies!

Hardcore Title Match!

u/ZQuest13(c) v. u/TheDumi0711 - Revelry's Dumi picked up a solid win over two prominent Rookies, and on his course to getting back on track under the tutelage of The Revelry, he'll go up against ZQuest who quite frankly has been non-stop on fire lately! Both of these men will be pulling some double duty tonight! So who between these two dominant figures here will get a huge dub next week?
u/AnActual_Goose v. u/525Forever
u/Fsnwj v. u/ICON___ - Faf'll go on up against ICON tonight this week on Smackdown! Not much story here, Faf suffered a loss in last week's Co-Main Event while ICON has been struggling to get a win since his debut victory over the goose. Will Faf pick back up where he left off? Or will ICON use the crushing lost to boost his own career once again?
Legion: Death From Above (u/ThatOneGuyHawk and u/BestInBounds) v. u/ZQuest13 and u/BenjaminEarl - I personally am a fan of seeing title matches getting teased through sick Tag Team Action. So this week we'll see ZQuest pick his own poison in a partner of his own volition! The poison ZQuest picked? He came to me and said, have an open call! So, in that honor BenajminEarl locked his spot in the locker room! So, it's ZQuest and Benji taking on LEGION: DFA! And to add some spice into this here match, the person who receives the pin (highest points) will receive a Hardcore Title match on a future Main Event of Smackdown!!!!
u/Isaiah2787 v. u/MrCappie v. u/M3tal_Slasha_515
u/Sinch_ v. u/NicholasGraziano - After Sinch's tragic no show two weeks ago, he asked me for a second shot. However as you know Graz was a little pre-occupied with his Contendership / Title match this week. So I compromised and said he'd get it next week. SO HERE WE ARE. A resparking of an old war for the Intercontinental Title! Who will! Which of these two largely changed men get a victory this week!

Main Event!

The Revelry (u/Pruef, u/Chow_Lemon, and u/TheDumi0711) v. The Outer Circle (u/DealerTokes, u/BrokenPenisJoke, and u/MidKnightDreary) - And in tonight's MAIIIIIIN EVENT! We'll get to watch, the Champion's Stable, and the Challenger's Stable go head to head! We'll watch the Revelry fight head to head against the Outer Circle! Will Tokes be able to snag that last minute win, or will Pruef run through the OC ahead of the upcoming match at CLASH of Champions!

Rules

Basic

Tag Team Ruling:

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